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8/9/10
It's Funny How One Little Plus Sign Can Change Everything

Hey, anybody else notice that the date is 8-9-1o? I love little things like that.

Thanks for your congrats and good wishes regarding yesterday's post. I love you guys. And don't worry, I'll try to keep the blog balanced between baby and non-baby stuff. I've seen more than a few good blogs dissolve from interesting posts into "the baby did this..." and "the baby did that..." (which is wonderful if it's your baby, but slightly less awe-worthy for those of us who don't have one and fail to see the magic of when your kid blows spit bubbles). On the other hand, I've seen some really well-done "Mommy Blogs" also, so I'm hoping that I can find a nice balance.

Here's the deal. I'll just answer some of the questions that have come up, and then we'll try to get back to some of our regularly scheduled programming. (I mean, you aren't missing much right now except for my all-encompassing, "Food? Take it away! TAKE IT AWAY!" nausea. And really, who wants to hear about that?) I'll keep you posted on the big stuff though.

I was surprised. Had no clue. Not a one. In fact, I never would have thought to even check except that I was getting ready to schedule my annual lady doctor visit and I was 15 days late (not unusual with me. I'm all over the board). But I knew that the first thing the Dr. would ask when I mentioned how late I was was I sure I wasn't pregnant. And I was sure I wasn't pregnant, but I took a home test just for proof.

That little blue plus sign was quite the shock.

So shocking in fact that I went straight to the store and bought a second test (a digital one this time, to make perfectly sure that it wasn't just that one test) and did it again. And sure enough, it immediately popped up, "Yes fool. You really are pregnant". I went to my lady doctor and she confirmed it with blood tests, gave me prenatal vitamins, and referred me to a specialist since I am considered a high-risk pregnancy (you know, the one kidney and all. One kidney for just me raised some eyebrows. One kidney for two of us they want to keep an eye on).

So far the hardest part about being pregnant is the mental parts. I just can't seem to absorb it. I totally get why it takes 40 weeks...you need that time to wrap your head around it. Or at least I will. When I hit the ancient age of 30, I guess I figured that having kids just wasn't in the cards for us. Now I'm happy, but I still don't really believe it either. I'm like Mom was when I told her...I keep waiting for someone to be all, "Just kidding!"

The good news is that two home tests, two blood tests and one ultrasound usually don't kid around.

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I think I would have liked to have been a fly on the wall when you told your parents. :)
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They were thrilled. Dad gave me a hug, but Mom kept punching me in the arm going, "You better not be kidding! This isn't a joke, right? If you're lying, you're dying!" I think she had a little trouble wrapping her head around it too. :-)
Wow! Congrats. It is A LOT to absorb, especially the first time!! :)

I remember when I took my first (first) test - ha! When it did the 'plus sign' thing all I could say over and over was "Oh My God, Oh My God!" And now "Oh My God" is six years old and going into first grade... ;) Hope you get to feeling better soon..
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Mama Quirk · 764 weeks ago

I guess this is the beginning of how things are different for a grandparent (me????) than for a parent. When it was me percolating I never worried about if I was healthy or if the baby was healthy but now I'm all How is Quirk feeling? Can she eat? Is she still happy about it? Any strange twinges? Is Baby Quirk growing? Is he/she developing correctly? Is he/she still happy about it?
As for me, I'm not still happy about it-I'm ECSTATIC!
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Oh wow! Congrats! You now have less than nine months to prepare the kitties for the new member of the family. ;D I've actually been on "maternity leave" myself for the last 7 weeks (had our 7lb 11 oz baby on June 16th), and that included getting behind on my favorite blogs (I had to go back to work to be able to read blogs, who knew). Hope the nausea isn't too bad for you and that you can still eat most of your favorite foods (I couldn't eat red meat for pretty much my full pregnancy and even chicken became a bit much sometimes, I lived off pasta some days).
Enjoy it.. I know you feel gross & sick right now, but eventually it will get better. The sickness will go away.. I hope. The ONLY thing that I found to help was to snack all day long. If I went longer than 30 minutes without eating, I would get nauseaus. If that happened, then I def. didn't want to eat which only made me feel sicker. It was a horrible cycle.

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